Most women love oral myself included , so getting it right is one of the keys to a great sex life. Oral sex is an essential part of great foreplay , but can be a full-on sexual experience in its own right. Plus, getting her aroused orally means less pressure on you to last forever during the main event. One of the most important things to remember here is that all women are different. What works for one might not work for another, and what worked last night might not work tonight.